The Art & Science of Psychology & Magic

First, let’s start by defining magic: Magic can be defined as finding something wonderful in everyday life, despite challenges. It can be described as a power of sorts that influences events by using universal forces internally and externally. Einstein once said “everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.” Here at tidylodge we deliver products and services that are aimed to inspire, flare creativity and excite our clients. We blend our spiritual and scientific practices to create a world of wonder that leaves our clients with a sense of awe and excitement. We define spirituality simply as the search for meaning and purpose in life.

There are three components that make up a magic trick and there are three ingredients to “Real Magic”, they are; Transforming Our Energy, Psychological Programming, Intervention of Human and/or Spiritual Beings. When all three are used together with a sprinkling of belief, they create Magic in our lives. Prayer is also a form of magic, as is meditation, manifesting, gratitude and setting intentions for the day. We have heard in ancient texts that man has lived hundreds of years, defied giants, exhibited feats of strength almost inhuman and turned water into wine. We know that there is transformative power in fairytales for adults as well as children. Magic is everywhere, whether you are an atheist, or religious, a freethinker, spiritual or a mixture.

Electrons in atoms and molecules can make transitions in energy levels by emitting or absorbing a photon whose energy must be exactly equal to the energy difference between the two levels. Since atoms make up everything, everything is energy and therefore can be transformed. To raise the energy or vibrations in human beings we do actually have the power of words, thought, body language and emotions to change the way we feel. In the wise words of Mr Sigmund Freud, “Words and magic were in the beginning one and the same thing, and even today words retain much of their magical powers.” It is often said in certain circles the quote, ‘you do not have the power to make someone feel something’. Unfortunately and fortunately, however you choose to look at it, this is not entirely true as Don Miguel describes in the chapter Be Impeccable with your Word from The Four Agreements: “Through the word you express your creative power. It is through the word that you manifest everything. Regardless of what language you speak, your intent manifests through the word. What you dream, what you feel and what you really are, will all be manifested through the word… The word is the most powerful tool you have as a human; it is the tool of magic. But like a sword with two edges, your word can create the most beautiful dream, or your word can destroy everything around you.”

We know that the word has ultimate power to destroy, as we have seen it used for evil by ‘you know who’ during the first and second world war. Yet it has been used for good, love and all things magical by Mother Theresa and Mahatma Gandhi to name but a few. However, we also have the power to dispose of poisonous words by attempting not to take them personally, this is next level mind control though. In our programmes at tidylodge we look at this area amongst others to aid you in your quest to make life magical.

You may have heard in various circles of influence that magic is evil or the work of some negative entity. However, we shall dispel that myth now, like anything, used in the wrong hands or out of context, it can be detrimental. Take the narcissist who uses psychology to manipulate the masses, or the religious fanatic who tells people they will go to hell or believes in violence and sacrifice as an act of God. Einstein believed in both the concept of God and theories of Science.

At tidylodge we believe in the magic definition mentioned earlier which is about light and goodness and the Magic Model. Which is, if all three components are used in conjunction with a person’s beliefs and in positive harmony; then we can infect ourselves and the world at large with love, compassion and kindness. That is what “real magic” is all about. So, if we combine our logical mind and our wise mind, a little DBT (Dialectical Behavioural Therapy) trick, we can see that creating magic in our everyday lives is not only logical and wise, but a magnificent addition to integrating our lives as a whole. Thus, seeing the mystery and wonder in our everyday lives. It is extremely uplifting too, to feel that spark of magic.

tidylodge Magic Model for “real magic” is as follows:

  1. Transform, Raise & Direct Energy & Vibrational Frequencies (how to change and redirect your energy through thoughts, words, feelings and senses)
  2. Psychological Programming, theories, evidenced based orientations (the scientifically evidenced based theories we utilise to create “real magic” in people’s lives)
  3. Intervention of Magiccraftee themselves, Magiccrafter, Spiritual & Other Beings (the client, therapist-coach and support network harnessed as part of the transformative element)

We believe in partnering with you to create a Magical world where we each find blessings in our everyday lives, despite challenges. When you feel your spark has gone in any area of your life, remember the Magic Model and utilise it to harness the power in that area of your life. Magic is real for us and it can be for you too. Make positive use of the tools at tidylodge, engage the people in your life and mercifully utilise the energy of the universe to create your everyday Magic.

Make Life Magical!

About Kelly-Jo Coney

Founder and CEO of the world’s first Magical Therapy Company, Kellyjo believes in blurring the line between work and play, by bridging the gap between psychotherapy and coaching, whilst conjuring a sense of mystery and creativity for those she works with. A masters therapist by trade, Kellyjo’s non-clinical approach, combined with her modern philosophies and old-fashioned ideologies make her a uniquely successful psychotherapist and business owner in her market. Kellyjo advises on topics such as workplace wellness, self-care, grief, anxiety, stress, depression, third-culture transitions, couple and family therapy and consults for SME’s based in the mental health field. Her approach is currently an up and coming trend in the field of psychotherapy.

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